Much as you might not want it to be so, some real female feminists would say by definition no male can be a real feminist. Others would say you are being sneaky and underhanded to call yourself a feminist and not include the “male” label.
BAN MALE FEMINISTS
There are the men you picture when you think about the really bad ones: the woman-haters who blame "feminism" as the…
Men and feminism - Wikipedia
American sociologist Michael Kimmel categorized American male responses to feminism at the turn of the twentieth century…
There is also debate about whether “intersectional” ideology subordinates women’s concerns amidst various Progressive Left causes, whether a pure ideological feminism that excludes men and disparages most Western, Middle-class, and White Women can be anything more than a marginal popular front, and which of the Waves represents the best way to go. You also seem tremendously enamored of the “no difference- all the same” philosophy of feminism, but there are feminist perspectives that emphasize female superiority and differences.
You can shout to the rooftops your feminist credentials — it doesn’t change the fact you’re still male.